Nak Malu Ke? Nak Kesian Ke??

2day I've appointment at Starbuck, Dtrn Pahlawan. Well tgh2 I borak2 ngan client I nie, tetiba dtg ler this boy minta derma (alah biasa la yg minta derma jual cd la, buku la selalunye akan ada resit dr rumah anak yatim so & so - tak yah ler nak sebut). Kalau mcm nie, selalunye I will give him/her few RM & said "Aunty sedekah nie,ok. Tak yah tulis resit2 nie".

But today lain ceritanye, this boy tu baru tgh ckp sepatah dua kata ngan I tetiba manager Starbuck tu dtg. He said....

Mgr Starbuck : Dik, kat sini adik tak bleh buat mcm nie, ok. (Politely....)

This boy didn't say anything just stood beside me.

Then again, since takde response the Mgr Starbuck tu kata lagi sekali....

Mgr Starbuck : Dik, saya kata kat sini adik tak bleh buat mcm nie. (Again politely in front of me).

This boy still standing beside me giving me his mukadimah abt his cd. Lepas tu apalagi, naik angin la si mgr Starbuck nie. Terus cakap again...

Mgr Starbuck : Adik, tolong keluar skrg. Saya cakap baik2 adik tak nak dengar atau adik tak paham ke. Atau nak saya panggil security. Nak ke?

Budak lelaki : Panggil la kalau berani. Ingat saya takut ke?

I was shocked at that time, tetiba je this boy answered back with no manners at all. With his unsatisfied look, he stared at the mgr starbuck...mak datuk...beraninye budak nie...Tadi bila cakap ngan I, punye ler lemah lembut...I can see his facial expression..fuh yoo...ganas memang mcm nak cari gaduh....

At that time the mgr starbuck went to look for the security. I hold this boy hand & gave him some money & I asked him to leave quickly. I was surprised...he did not moved at all. Then the mgr starbuck starts to chase him out of the outlet. He went out yet he still standing out side the outlet staring & mumbling towards the mgr starbuck.

As he walked away, he kicked the chairs & tables outside...beraninye dia. Then..tak disangka-sangka...he came back again still mumbling with his face staring at the counter. One of the staff there was an Indian boy...this boy started to swear at this Indian boy...I heard..."Kalau dah **ling, memang **ling la"...he kicked the bottom part of the counter and bang the cupboards where all the gift display (new mugs la, new soft toy la..) I takut je cupboard tu tumbang & pecah mug2 tu..ayoo yoooo..Then as he went out, he back the glass window...bangggg....nasib baik la si mgr starbuck tu takde kat luar..kalau tidak...abis la boy nie.

I've never encountered this before. I was really really shocked. A malay boy (dr rumah anak2 yatim) doing this in public. Memalukan......maybe he's desperate wanting people to give donation but not to this extend. I was really really 'ternganga' at that point. Memalukan tu dah semestinye...nak kesian ke? Nak kesian pun people will think twice with all the 'action' that he did. Malu campur kesian la...

Losing My Weight

Ta daaaa....I'm in the midst of losing my weight. Hmmm I'm currently at 85kg...besar giler kan??? Ha ha ha...anyway, I think it's time to reduce. I've been wandering yet letting my body rest for a long time already. It's time to wake up...Wake up Salina!!! It's time...

I've started on 1st November 2009, tak sempat nak update blog time tu. I cut down on a lot of food intake nowadays. Early morning, I only consume 3 in 1 Oat, noon lunch mcm biasa but nite time I don't take any meals at all especially rice or any carbo food. Normally early morning, I will do squats & plank..it really really helps a lot.
My body pain la...here & there...I do take one supplement that is Honey Apple Cider. It's good whereby firstly, it helps to reduce body weight & burns fat effectively with continuously exercise. Tu ler kalau makan benda nie je, mana bleh lose weight mesti kena exercise punye....sudah semestinye said hubby.

It's also helps on our digestion and prevent constipation problem. Since my intake early November, I have a lot of energy (stamina) to do daily chores especially when I have to be on the road all the time. My concentration on driving is much more better. When I woke up in the morning, I feel fresh & mcm tak malas nak bangun mcm biasa tu. Kalau dah terjaga tu, terus bangun & get ready for the day. Tak pernah plak aku rasa mcm tu. Kalau nak tido skrg pun, memang senang la...dulu nak tido punye pusing kiri, pusing kanan pun susah nak lelap...tapi skrg takde lagi.

Berat badan blum nampak turun lagi...maklum je la baru start. The main ingredient for the Honey Apple Cider are Honey (Madu) plus Red Apple Cider (Epal Merah)..ha ha ha...Rasulullah pun makan madu hari2. Madu memang bagus utk internal organ. Byk membantu memperbaiki sistem dalaman...lagi satu Epal Merah memang bagus compare tu Epal Hijau.....

Mudah-mudahan dapat la turun sikit berat badan aku nie....nak conceive....doc dah kata berat badan kena turun sikit la...he he he...

Al Kisah....

Dah lama benau tak update blog...sory frens, I sibuk sikit la. Anyway, I've got 2 stories to tell...geram, marah, sedih dan mcm-mcm lagi la..aku rasa topik aku hari nie pasti 'panas'....so let's hear it...

Cerita 1
My fren punye SIL. Dah nearly to 13 yrs of marriage dan now tgh pregnant...tetiba je abg my fren nie ceraikan dia punye SIL..kesian laaa..Dah susah payah dpt anak, nak ceraikan lak plak. So my fren punye SIL nie nasib baik 'working woman' memang boleh tanggung diri sendiri la. Apa ler punye husband, dah baik2 13 thn yg tetiba nak cerai wat aper?? Well, the stories is like this, husband dia nie terjumpe long lost so called 'ex-girlfren' dia and terus ler 'lekat'. Mula2 tu asyik calling2, jumpe for lunch la, cakap2 biasa je..lelama tu jadik lain plak. Yg aku 'panas' nie sbb si 'ex-girlfren' dia nie still bini orang lain. Dia minta fasakh...Ya Allah..dah
baik2 kawin ngan org lain yang pie gatal ngan laki org buat aper????? Si pompuan nie dah ada anak pun...entah apa yg dia cari kat laki org pun tak tau apa...Si husband dia plak boleh kasi reason yang "Tiada rasa cinta & kasih lagi pada si SIL"..alamak boleh dia kata mcm tu skali!!!! So, skrg nie dia org tgh go through divorcing procedure..turun naik mahkamah....aku geram campur sedih...

Cerita 2
Ada sorang my fren nie, husband dia memang peramah, suka tolong orang...bla bla bla. Tetiba si wife nie mcm dpt rasa (ala pompuan kan biasa...mcm ada sixth sense gituu) yg si husband dia nie ada bau2 nak 'pasang' kaki la...paham2 je la..
Well, katanye takde apa2 hubungan...tapi kalau 1 hari asyik dok call sampai lebih dari 5 kali...kejap2 call, kejap2 call...apa kejadahnye?? Kawan atau nak mengawan??
My fren nie punye ler geram, dia confront la laki dia...laki dia kata takde apa2..kite just kawan.

Tu ler, my fren nie tau yg so called 'kawan pompuan' dia nie tgh ada problem ngan laki dia. Hmmm..asyik2 call, asyik2 call...sikit2 tanya tu, tanya nie..
"Wei, Pompuan. Takde org lain ke yg kau nak tanya, hah?" Time pagi call, tghari kang call, ptg sikit call, kekadang mlm pun call....mak datuk!!! panas dibuatnye...
Sblm nie takde plak, kau tercall2 laki kawan aku nie...kawan aku nie pompuan, kau pun pompuan...bini org lain plak tu...sooo berpada2 la klau nak call laki org tu....
Yg laki kawan aku nie plak, bleh tak ngaku ada suatu hari tu si pompuan tu tepon depan2...dia katanye org lain...Oii..apa nak jadi nie? Kenapa sampai laki kawan aku nie sanggup tipu isteri dia sendiri? Apa cantik benau ke pompuan tu? Klau setakat fizikal cantik...ianye takkan kekal lama la...esok Tuhan tarik nikmat..kena eksiden ke...tergolek dlm longkang ke....hmmmm biar la...Tuhan Amat Mengetahui....

Kesimpulan
Apa nak jadik ngan dunia skrg nie? Lelaki dah tentu ler 'gatal', yg si pompuan nie plak beria-ia. Apa yg tak cukup ngan dirinye. Pada aku, apa yang penting..kite kena sedar yang tiada seorang umat manusia dlm dunia nie yang sempurna. Kite dijadikan utk belajar mengenali diri sendiri...apatah lagi untuk mengenal diri org lain. Jadi, berwaspada la..setiap tindakan yg kita ambil kemungkinan akan mengakibatkan mana2 pihak tersalah anggap atau sebaliknye. Mungkin niat baik nak tolong mula2...tapi akhirnye jadik lain plak. Pada pandangan aku la, laki & pompuan takleh berkawan rapat....mesti jadik lain. Itu yg aku dah lihat & observe. Kekadang kite cuba elak tapi lambat laun pasti tak sangka. Pada asalnye mungking tidak ada rasa sayang..nanti dah lama2 klau dah hari2 dok call je...apa yg akan terjadi??? Sendiri jawab la...

So, nasihat aku tuk sesiapa yg membaca en3 blog aku kali nie....beringat la, sebelum melakukan apa2 tindakan atau apa sahaja keputusan. Fikir dulu, jgn ikut suka hati je. Setiap tindakan atau keputusan yg kite buat semestinye terkena seseorang secara directly or indirectly. Cuba fikirkan klau diri kite sendiri yg terkena. Sanggup tak kite nak buat mcm tu? Tergamak kah kite?

Walau apa pun masalah yg kite hadapi, ingat la yg Tuhan sentiasa memerhatikan kite. Kekadang kite rasa tindakan atau perlakuan kite nie tak salah tapi mungkin salah atau tak kena di mana org lain.