Got a call from my fren yesterday, she's having problem with her child.. Well the story is like this. All this while her mum take care of her child daily..mcm nanny la. But these few months, her mum mcm trying to tell her that she's no more into 'jaga' her child indirectly.
There r few incidents when early in the moring her mum called & asked her to 'jaga' cause she got things to do, got places to go, even though sampai nak beli groceries pun dah tak nak bawa daughter dia nie. Ada there's 1 incident, her mum ada nak attend funeral la....sampai dia call my fren suruh balik cepat..pick her child soo suddenly. My fren is at work...mana boleh suka2 keluar from ofis but her mum insist....then what to do.
Well, at first she thought that maybe her mum really needed things to be done without any disturbance from her child but she realise that maybe it's time for her to send her child to other nanny.
I advised her that maybe her mum indirectly conveying message to her that she do not want to 'jaga' her child. It's time for her not to rely too much on her mother. Told her don't blame her as she has to have her own time...Just look back & remember those days she took care of you, be there when you r down...normally mums will be there 24/7...well, look at the bright side, she's been taking care of your child quite sometime....& it's time for her to rest, to enjoy her life. Take things positively in life. Try to be reasonable with her....
Sometimes in life, there r times that you have to think that it's time to change. I know it's not easy to adapt changes but we have to whether like it or not. Changes normally is good for ownself...we change for good in our life...not to be bad.
Take things easy in life....For things to change, you must change first!!!